Won’t be long now!!


The party planning is in high gear now. Happy to say the hotel (aka the ENTIRE tower part of the hotel) is almost full and we’re very quickly reaching our party cap of 75-80 party attendees. We sure hope you’re one of them!

To those of you who attended last year, or those of you “newbies” who completed your application for this year’s party, be on the look out in your email for party updates (I finally caught up on everyone’s applications and payments, I think).

We’ll be sending out another email soon so you can pick your Dinner choices. Those of you who attended last year will remember the scrumptious choices at our elegant sit down dinner. As with last year, there will be a vegetarian choice as well.

For those of you who haven’t attended, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? Come join the rest of us for Pizza, Ice Cream, Sandcastle building contest, Cocktail hour (FREE – OPEN bar), Dinner and a to die for Sunday Brunch. Or and not to mention SPANKING, SPANKING, SPANKING fun!

And we’re pleased that EMFToys will be returning this year!!

So don’t wait! Complete your application and/or pay your party fee and book your room. You don’t want to miss out!

Follow the chatter on our Fetlife Group too!

Sandcastle Crew



The Sandcastle Society is THRILLED to announce our 2019 party.  Save the dates: Sept. 26-30, 2019. Same awesome venue, same beach vibe. See information below.




If you’d like to attend our 2019 party, here’s what you need to do:
If you attended our 2018 party: you will NOT have to complete another application – you will receive an invitation in your email soon and you’ll just need to RSVP your desire to attend.

For those of you who registered last year, but did not end up coming: please complete the application again so we can complete the vetting process.

For those who have never registered to become a member of the group: please click on the Membership application above and complete the application. Once it’s received, someone from the Board will contact you to vet you. UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN VETTED, please do NOT assume you have been approved for group membership or that you are on the list to attend the party.

Party info:

Party fee: $175 per person ($180/per person if paid via PayPal) from now until July 15th. After July 15th, and if there are still event tickets available, the cost for late registration will be $190/per person ($195/per person if you pay with PayPal).

Rooms: Same great Gulf Front Deluxe Studio: Sunday-Thursday= $143.00; Friday & Saturday= $175.00 (Please note: a resort fee of $20 will be added per night)

Saturday dinner “theme” – to be announced soon

So mark your calendars, register or RSVP and plan on another extraordinary party vacation!

Kay and the Sand Castle Crew

Here it is..the Vendor Line up for Friday night!!

The Sandcastle crew is excited to announce the vendor line up for our inaugural event! Like our party the vendor fair will be low key and intimate, like shopping in your own little kinky boutique. We hope you’ll be as excited about these vendors as we are!

First one that will be joining us is EMF Toys! All of their products are handcrafted. They use exotic hardwoods and solid surface countertop materials to craft the highest quality spanking implements. Each toy is unique because they are created one at a time so no two are ever alike which means you’re guaranteed to get a one of a kind new toy. They will even work with you to turn your idea for a new implement into a reality! EMF Toys has even taken on projects that other manufacturers have turned down.

Make sure to stop by and check them out at Friday night’s meet and greet. If you aren’t familiar with EMF Toys and want to look around their website in advance to get some ideas for the new “must have” to add to your toy bag, here’s the link: EMF TOYS

Next, we are so excited to welcome FetShots as one of our vendors this year!
Some of you may be familiar with the owner/photographer, TheImpishElf. She has attended several parties in Florida and around the country in the past. She will not only have available sessions to book over the weekend but she will also be selling raffle tickets and one lucky winner will win a ½ hour photo shoot with this talented lady!
Make sure to stop by and saw hello to her on Friday, trust me, you don’t want to miss the chance to schedule your very own spanking, boudoir, kinky or sexy photo shoot!
TheImpishElf’s work is gorgeous! If you’ve never seen it, go check out the samples of her photography on her website. Click the link below to get there: FetShots

And lastly, we will have a virtual vendor, Adam and Gillian! If you aren’t familiar with Adam and Gillian, their company has been in the business since 1987 and they have an extensive website where you’ll be sure to find that “implement of affection” you’ve been searching for. If you don’t see what you want, they will work with you to create your dream implement.

They weren’t able to join us for the weekend but Adam and Gillian have generously offered to extend a 15% discount exclusively to our party guests. You can pick up your discount code at the vendor fair on Friday and order anytime within the 30 days following the party. However, if you want a new strap to bring with you to the party, they have also graciously offered to extend an “early-bird” discount of 15% as well. Keep in mind you must be an approved party guest to be eligible.
Click below to visit their extensive website:  AdamandGillian


As you all know from a previous post, we have filled our block set of hotel rooms. We are also announcing that the party itself is full! We will continue to take any applications to be a member of our group, but if you are wanting to come to the October Party, we will have to place you on our waiting list.

We’re very sorry to those who may have wanted to come to this party, but please keep up to date with our group and our plans for our next party. If we have do anyone who needs to cancel, we will contact the person(s) on the waiting list.

Thanks to everyone who’s registered/paid and booked their hotel for the party. It was a wonderful surprise to have our party filled before the cut off date.

Kay and the SandCastle Crew

Hotel group/block rooms – GONE

Well that didn’t take long. We’ve now filled 3 floors and the penthouse floor for our first party! The hotel tells me there are no more rooms in our block and no more rooms available in the tower. So if you are one of those who have waited until the very end, you can still attend the party, but your room(s) will be in the main hotel.

FINAL cutoff for Registering for the party is September 15th. After that, it’ll be too late to get a party ticket. Don’t delay! If you are still interested in attending, go to the membership application tab and fill out an application.

For those of you who have paid and already booked your rooms, be on the look out for an email with more details about the menu for Saturday night dinner and to RSVP for Sunday Brunch.

It’s getting exciting around here. It’s going to be awesome!! Can’t wait to see everyone.

The Sandcastle Crew


The hotel has agreed to block another floor for our party!! Thank goodness, since we already have enough attendees to start filling it up. We currently only have 8 rooms left on the 3 dedicated party floors. Don’t wait!

If you haven’t completed an application yet, go to our website and register. Once you’ve paid your party fee, (rate goes up August 15th), you can immediately book your room with NO upfront cost. Just pay when you check in!

I’m getting pretty excited about all the awesome people who are coming! Hope to see you there.


Less than a month left for regular registration

Sandcastle’s first party is growing by leaps and bounds!! We have an awesome group of people who have already registered and paid for their party fee. It will be great to see some old friends and we are excited to meet the new people too!

The dedicated floors at the hotel are almost filled – only 5 rooms left on the party floors!! (while the hotel may try to give us more rooms if we overflow, there’s no guarantee).

Don’t be left out! Register and pay for your party fee now before the party is full. Current party fee is $175/per person ($180/per person if paid via PayPal) from now until August 15th. After August 15th, and if there are still event tickets available, the cost for late registration will be $190/per person,($195/per person if you pay with PayPal).

Don’t want to miss out on our inaugural party? Complete your application (see task bar above) and you’ll be one step closer to attending the best beach party of the year!

Can’t wait to see you!
Sandcastle CrewIMG_1963


We are excited to share some of the tantalizing treats we will be serving during the Sandcastle Party in October. Below is just a tease of the delicious weekend menu.

Friday, 10:30 pm – Penthouse suite – PIZZA PARTY

Saturday, 3:00 pm- 4:00 pm – ICE CREAM AND FRUIT STATION

Cool off after the sandcastle building contest. Make your own sundae creation with vanilla and chocolate ice cream, then pile on the scrumptious toppings: chocolate syrup, caramel sauce, sliced strawberries, chocolate sprinkles, marshmallow fluff, chopped walnuts, Oreo crumbles and whipped cream.

The fruit station offers up juicy, fresh seasonal fruit to add to your ice cream creations—or to enjoy as a stand-alone snack.

Saturday, 8:00 pm – Ballroom – PLATED DINNER
The evening begins with an open bar at 7:00 pm – serving alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages.

Your sit-down dinner includes your choice of 1 of the 3 available menu options, with the open bar continuing until 10:00 pm. There will be a chef’s-choice dessert station that includes an assortment of mini pastries, cupcakes and petit fours to round out the dinner extravaganza.

Sunday, 10:00 am-noon – Ballroom – BEACH-SIDE BRUNCH
YOUR TASTE BUDS WILL BE SAYING “THANK YOU SIR, MAY I HAVE ANOTHER?” Get your final day on the beach started with this yummy spread:

• Freshly brewed coffee, decaffeinated coffee, hot cocoa and a selection
of black,herbal and specialty teas;orange, grapefruit and cranberry juice
• Freshly baked assorted pastries and muffins, with fruit preserves and butter
• Sliced seasonal melons, fruits and berries
• Waffle station
• Assorted mini petit fours and tarts
• Scrambled eggs with cheddar jack and chives
• Pasta Primavera Salad
• Eggs benedict topped with poblano hollandaise
• Crisp applewood smoked bacon and breakfast sausage links
• Oven roasted breakfast potatoes with seasoned herbs
• Pasta primavera salad
• Sliced sirloin with wild mushroom demi-glace
• Seared peppered chicken with tomato, artichokes and basil
• Seasonal vegetables with herb Provencal

You’ll notice we’ve failed to mention the Saturday evening dinner menu options. Only paid registrants will receive an email to choose between the 3 incredible meals.

Well there you have it! With all this world-class food, just think how many spanking activities you’ll need to partake in to work off the calories!


Just got back from our fabulous hotel where Nightoww, S_Blue, Michael-tx and I had the pleasure of meeting with the amazing hotel staff to finalize some party details and do the tasting to choose the dinner options for Saturday night.

All we can say is wow…the food was delicious! We settled on three fabulous entrees that we are sure will not disappoint!
So for everyone who has paid their party fee, please keep an eye on your email. In the coming weeks you will be receiving a message that will describe the mouthwatering menu choices so you can pick your meal.

The excitement is really starting to build! So hurry up October, we cannot wait to see everyone and introduce you to our incredible new venue!



The party might not be until October, but it’s never too early to see an itinerary. This isn’t a final schedule and there will definitely be more exciting and interesting events added. Right now we have plans for a fun party in the sun at the Gulf Coast beach.

Without further commercial interruption:

On arrival, all party-goers will receive a welcome package which includes information about the party, hotel and area activities. Additionally, you will get everything you need to participate in our sandcastle building contest!

Thursday, October 11, 2018

We are still in the planning stages to provide activities for the early arrivals

Friday, October 12, 2018

3 pm

Hospitality Penthouse will be open for registration.

5-7 pm  

Vendors Fair in the Penthouses.  Meet & Greet (featuring icebreaker games)

       vendor fair ice breaker

10:30 pm

Pizza Riot in the Penthouse (pajamas welcome)


2 am

Penthouses close for the evening. Plenty of time to meet people, play, and eat

Saturday, October 13, 2018

11 am – Noon

A Female Top event is planned in the Hospitality Penthouse.

1:30 pm – 2:30 pm 

Sandcastle building contest on the beach. This is where the stuff we gave you will come in handy.

sand castle building

3-4 pm

Cool off after the beach at our ice cream and fruit station social in the hotel cafe.

icecream social                              fruit station

5-6 pm

A Male Top event will be held in the Penthouse.

7-8 pm

 Cocktail hour in the hotel ballroom. Open bar during Cocktail hour (yes, that’s right, this includes soda, water and premium adult beverages).

cocktail hour

8 pm to 10:30 pm

A plated dinner in the ballroom. Attire for this event is beach-inspired (sundresses, flowered shirts, something with a flamingo on it, etc)  MENU COMING SOON!

sit down dinner

Open bar continues until 10 pm!!

This event will also feature a short yet entertaining “game show” being devised by Rad and based on his fascination with radio quiz shows of the 1940s & 50s.

The winner of the First Annual Sandcastle Building Contest will be crowned!

And one lucky person will be the winner of an awesome door prize!

11:00 pm – 2:00 am/??

Penthouse suites will re-open

Sunday, October 14th, 2018

10:00 am – Noon

Brunch in the ballroom. Menu to follow. YOU WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED!! Bring your appetite!


Noon – 2:00 pm

Penthouses will be open for people to say their goodbyes, hug, get in that final spanking session, and then, of course, hug some more.


2:00 pm

The official party is over.

8:00 pm

For those staying through Sunday, please join us in the Penthouse for GAME NIGHT!!  (pajamas welcome).

So get excited for sun, fun, spanking, the beach, spanking, an awesome hotel, pizza, more spanking, some more food, sandcastles, hugging and of course spanking.

To be continued…



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